Navigating funeral etiquette in the UK can be challenging. From choosing the right shade of charcoal to understanding the 'Smart-Formal' expectations of a British service, our expert guide covers everything a gentleman needs to know. Discover the essential dos and don'ts of funeral attire, featuring professional styling tips from Makrom’s resident tailors.

What to wear to a funeral

At Makrom, we understand that dressing for a funeral is about showing utmost respect through timeless British tailoring. The golden rule for UK funerals is to opt for a "smart-formal" look in dark, muted tones typically a well-fitted black, charcoal, or navy men's suit paired with a crisp white shirt and a conservative tie.

 

The British Funeral Etiquette: An Expert Guide

In the UK, funeral attire has evolved, but the core principle remains: your outfit should reflect the solemnity of the occasion. As specialists in men’s formal wear for over 6 years, we recommend avoiding anything "business-casual" unless specifically requested by the family.

1. The Core Elements of the Outfit

To meet the high standards of British formal traditions, focus on these four pillars:

  • The Suit: A classic black suit is the standard. If you don't own one, charcoal or deep navy are acceptable alternatives. Ensure the fit is impeccable; a sagging suit can appear disrespectful.

  • The Shirt: A plain white, long-sleeved classic shirt is non-negotiable. It must be perfectly ironed

  • The Tie: Stick to solid black or very dark tones. Avoid bold patterns or "loud" colours.
  • Footwear: Polished black leather Oxford or Derby shoes.

2. Quick Reference Table: UK Funeral Dress Code

Item Recommended Avoid
Suit Colour Black, Charcoal, Dark Navy Light Grey, Beige, Brown
Shirt Style Plain White, Single or Double Cuff Button-down collars, Prints
Accessories Black Tie, Simple Cufflinks Pocket squares with bright patterns
Outerwear Black Overcoat (Trench or Wool) Hoodies, Denim jackets, Gilets

3. Seasonal Considerations for the UK Climate

Our resident stylists highlight that British weather is unpredictable.

  • Winter: Layer your suit with a tailored wool overcoat. A waistcoat can provide extra warmth without compromising the silhouette.

  • Summer: Opt for breathable cotton shirts to stay comfortable during outdoor graveyard services.

4. Expert Tip: The "Smart" vs "Formal" Distinction

While some modern "Celebration of Life" services allow for more colour, the default in the UK is "Formal". If the invitation doesn't specify "Colourful Attire," always lean towards the traditional.

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